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Five Frequent Mistakes Made By Those With Elderly Parents

April 11th, 2010

1. Not having a discussions about alternative living arrangements for your parents.

It is important to be proactive concerning this! It is so much easier and less confrontational to start this process early and often. If you start early having discussions about options and choices, you can be much more low key about it.

If you wait and start talking about it after your Dad has fallen and broken his hip, there is no time to be low key-you are now “under the gun” to find answers quickly!

2. Not having a clear picture of your parents’ financial situation.

Know whether or not they have a long term care policy. If so, you should know where it is and make sure it’s easily accessible. Also, take some time to read through it so you know what it does and does not cover.

If they do not have insurance, what other financial resources do they have? Perhaps it would make sense for you and your parents to talk with a lawyer about Medicaid eligibility and spend down rules. Also, if you have a parent who is a Veteran, it’s possible they’re eligible to receive coverage for some services.

3. When your parents’ health starts to fail, thinking that a nursing home is the only option.

There are no shortage of options around these days. If your parent is resolute about staying in their own home, it is very possible to arrange for care there.

There are also ways to be very creative about combining several modalities of care. For instance, a family might have their father go to adult day care several times a week during the day, then have a caregiver stay over nights and family members supplement the other times if needed. The possibilities are endless to customize a plan that is just right for your situation.

4. Waiting until the last minute to get help.

Nothing is more stressful than trying to formulate a plan of care knowing your Mom is coming home tomorrow from the hospital. There is no way to make good, rational decisions that quickly and under that much duress. You will feel overwhelmed.

Start early doing your homework. Begin to form a relationship with a couple of agencies or facilities you feel comfortable with by having them come out and do an Assessment or you and your parents visiting a facility. When and if an emergency strikes, you will be calling up people who know you and is familiar with your loved one’s situation.

5. Only looking at cost when deciding between care options.

This can go both ways. There are very expensive nursing home facilities that have very poor track records of care. Don’t be swayed by fancy brochures, videos or tours. Try and talk to some of the actual residents and their loved ones.

When it comes to in-home care, the lowest hourly rate may not be your best option. Keep in mind that good, quality caregivers require a higher salary. The good home care agencies simply can’t offer the lowest rates yet provide the best senior caregivers. And be sure that you meet, and approve of, any caregiver BEFORE they start providing care for your loved one.

Theanna Zika founded St. Louis, MO senior home care company, Heavenly Helpers, in 2004. She shares tips, strategies and advice about caring for seniors that she has learned over the years on the blog at her company’s website. The site also features a helpful list of St. Louis, MO senior resources for seniors and their loved ones in the St. Louis, MO Metro area.

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What Kinds Care For the Elderly Is There

March 11th, 2010

Are you currently in a position where it may be required to arrange for aging care? It does not matter if the place is for yourself or someone you love, determining the best aging care facility is essential. Here’s a look at some of the different aging care options and how to select the right facility for your needs.

You will want to be aware of that if someone suffers from certain medical conditions they will need very specialised care which could make some healthcare choices unacceptable. They can include Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia, care following a massive stroke or heart attack, or even something similar to arthritis, where mobility is usually profoundly affected.

Do you like the idea of staying in your own home? Consider a care provider who will come in and help look after your needs. Think about the specific needs you will want met, and the home itself. If mobility is a problem, someone may need to move to a home with no stairs. If you cannot lift, consider having help with your housework and yard work. You should think carefully about the different things you need to do around the house and make sure that these are taken care of in order to make living at home as successful as possible.

There are also retirement homes, which may also be called assisted living facilities. These are fantastic if your health is good but you no longer want to live in your home or you want more companionship. One of the biggest problems that many elderly people can face is the feeling of isolation and the depression it can bring. Facilities where you still have your own living quarters but are around other people and can take part in activities may be what you need. Many retirement residences are now installing an alarm system into their residents’ rooms so that if there is a medical emergency, staff can be alerted with the press of a button.

You may be forced to look at a nursing home in order to take care of your specific health needs. If you are selecting a facility for a loved one, you need to make sure that the residents are healthy and well cared for. The cost of these facilities may be high, and there should be signs that the money is going back to the patients and being used to benefit them, as well as improve the facility. Look for a facility that can accommodate you or your loved one’s specific challenges and needs. Is there in house physiotherapy and routine medical check-ups? These can be important things to consider when picking a facility.

If your loved one is very ill you may be forced to consider palliative care. This can be a heartbreaking decision since, by admitting palliative care is needed you are admitting that there is little to no chance your loved one will get better. Palliative care arrangements should still ensure that your loved one is well cared for and that there is mental or physical stimulation when that is possible. Remember that you never know how long your loved one has left so you should plan for them to be as comfortable as possible for as long they can.

You have to think beyond the immediate situation when determining whether a particular aging care arrangement is best for your family. By learning about the aging process and any specific needs you have, you’ll find a facility that may assist you grow old gracefully and enjoy any remaining years you have.

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